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Maiveeta wrote:If I may add a coupla things that occured to me while reading
An adept:
Walks the talk, and does very little talking. The learning is by example
Is patient
Doesnt talk about students behind their backs (I had an herbal apprenticeship with a woman who jabbed all of us to the others...it was devastating to me and the other students)
Doesnt toot their own horn
Often uses the phrase "Is that so?"
Is patient and even tempered. One of my mentors lost their mind with me because of a question that I asked was taken out of context...I have lost all respect for this person.
Has conversations with students and is willing to be wrong. Is also willing to be right without rubbing the students nose in it...
Allows the student to fuck up...and figure their own way out...only intervene if there is something that will hurt the student. We learn by screwing up and unscrewing it.
Most importantly...gets to know the student as an equal, really, not just a weekend and boom done, a two way relationship.
Thats my wishlist, I will teach when I am a professor, my goal is to make each and every student a better scientist than me. IMHO should be the same with every type of teacher.
Gonzo wrote:I'm beginning to become a bit paranoid. I was going to leave this topic alone, however, a few days ago, I got curious about the word "adept", since it has been used here as sort of a catch-all. The dictionary definition was inadequate, since the finer meaning really was "spiritual adept" which wasn't defined. Google search yielded some interesting results, one article in particular describing the evaluation of spiritual teachers. It was an interesting article, and I considered excerpting a few comments, or perhaps providing a link to it, then decided by doing so we might incur another brouhaha and my intent was not to start a fight. So, I let it go.
The topic continues, so this morning I did the same Google search. The article no longer exists...404 Page Note Found. Not only was that article missing, so too were the majority of other hits, all yielding 404's. I tried to be tricky, changed the search to "evaluatiing spiritual teachers" - more 404's, at which time I thought I had either a browser problem or a DSL problem. Not so. What's up with this?
What follows are my own notions about spiritual teachers.
First, is a spiritual teacher necessary? My only answer to that is, "Yes, if you think so."
Second, a true spiritual teacher does not charge. Not my rule. It's the rule.
Third. A true spiritual teacher is not in it for himself. That is, his identity is not defined by any label.
Fourth. A true spiritual teacher is unconcerned about critics.
Fifth. A true spiritual teacher lives his shit.
Sixth. In a face to face meeting, does he have substantial presence?
Seventh. Can he let you go?
~BlackCrow~ wrote:Now you sound like River... "99.9 percent of all people have their eyes wide shut".
It may surprise you to know (though somehow I think not) that many can see, and not all of us are blind followers of a so-called Master. Something about following the scent of a faker, it's like garlic on a baby's breath. Peee eeew!
Zamurito wrote:~~BlackCrow~ wrote:Now you sound like River... "99.9 percent of all people have their eyes wide shut".
It may surprise you to know (though somehow I think not) that many can see, and not all of us are blind followers of a so-called Master. Something about following the scent of a faker, it's like garlic on a baby's breath. Peee eeew!
You'd know all about following.
Typical reply.
Criticize all you'd like. Doesn't change your current situation.
Go back and burry your head.
~BlackCrow~ wrote:On second thought, you know what, this is obviously something you need to work out, and probably has nothing whatsoever to do with me. So I'll leave you to do that. Good luck.
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