Responsibility

[Affinity]

For Doc....

The Greater Our Sense of Responsibility, the Greater our Personal Power

Throughout history humans have tried to place responsibility for their unhappiness outside of themselves. Most societies have long held the assumption that the ruling body needs to change in order for the human condition to change. This method has been tried unsuccessfully by hundreds of generations, each in turn trying to impose their particular form of "illumination." Despite these efforts the human condition remains largely unchanged - societies filled with conflict and fear, and individuals suffering in pain. These conditions have become so familiar that it's hard to recognize the pervasive levels of fear and the consequential suffering that we accept as a fact of life.

To put the responsibility of your happiness outside of yourself, places all the power over your own happiness in someone else's hands. We commonly give this power to friends, lovers, family members, political institutions, and other organizations. Along with this power we set up certain expectations of those we have empowered. This is a perfect set up for disappointment, frustration, and all the emotions of suffering. It is the recipe for a broken heart.

When we take responsibility for our own happiness we relieve others of the burden of our expectations. They are then free to be what they want to be, without the fear that they will be punished emotionally or made to feel guilty for letting us down. We can accept people as they are, not as we "need" them to be in order to hold our shell of happiness. We can love them as they are, and don't need them to be anything else. Taking responsibility for your own happiness leads you to unconditional love.

The journey to take complete responsibility for your own happiness requires that you take responsibility for all your emotions. This is an act of power that the victim mind makes to become a Warrior of the Spirit. After this, the Warrior never blames anyone for their own emotions. The Warrior knows that he or she is completely responsible for every emotion in their life. With that responsibility comes the personal power to win over the emotions of fear that cause suffering and choose love. When a Warrior recovers enough personal power, he or she, has the keys to unconditional love.

The truth is that you are completely responsible for your life. So often we forfeit the power of this responsibility through acts without awareness. A simple off hand comment such as, "He makes me so mad," is such a simple way to give up this power. It is like casting a magical spell with the power of your word to give someone else control over your own emotions. This is black magic we use against ourselves when we are not aware of our actions.

Recovering your personal power is not an intellectual exercise. It requires action in changing your words, your habits, and your point of view. With enough personal power you can change your whole dream. You can change your dream to one of Heaven on earth. You are responsible for everything in your dream, and that gives you the power to change it.

~ Gary van Warmerdam

[Red Heart]

A most excellent post Aff. I have been playing with this idea for a while, then I found Ho'onoponopono...now I am serious. There is also along with unconditional love, freedom that comes with being 100% responsible for reality. We, who create our own reality, are responsible for that reality, we create it, we can change what does not work for us, which makes for a free person, without the vagaries of another person to create or co-create our lives...we got the powah (DISCO!!!)